25 Year Old Wedding Bells
Dave & Teresa, St. Mary's Mission Catholic Church July 30th, 1983
Our Story....
We met when I was just mere 19 years old, Dave was 32. Age didn't seem to be a factor for the most part; but then sometimes it certainly was. Most people thought I was extremely crazy; most voiced their opinions. I will not lie and say it has been a magical blissful 25 years, as it was full of ebbs and tides. We laughingly joke about a joke told by comedian Dana Carvey, where he said, "my wife was 19 when I met her and I have raised her as my own." This is how it's been in a weird little way. We see it now, but not at the time. I was very immature; and somewhat lost. He was a divorcee with 3 children, I became a new stepmom at the great age of 20. But in the beginning we just clicked. We both lacked some things growing up and we intertwined well because of it. Lost souls out there in this big world stumbling and fumbling, and then we did it together. Our two beautiful children came a few years later after marrying, which was God's miracle in itself. My husband had a reverse vasectomy and the odds were against it working was slim, because of a few complications. But it worked, and they are our miracles. They were the thick glue that held this together, and a light in a little bit of a dark beginning for us. My husband and I have been through many obstacles, and now after 25 years of marriage, we are at a special place. I respect my husband for all he has been through and has came out the man he is. He is a wonderful father and he spoils his wife to death. I love you Super Dave.
This is a special time and am happy to have made it this far. It's taken me some years to realize how important the uniting in marriage is, what it all stands for; and what God has intended for us. I see young couples struggling and not making it; now, I know some cases just can't be helped and end in divorce, but for the others who just can't handle the day to day I want to say, just hang on, hold on, things twist and change, and it gets better; you come to a different place, it shifts and can be blissful.
Dave is whisking me away to our favorite get-away, a special place for us. So, I will be holding off on my promised Marketplace that I had scheduled for Tuesday. I will be gone from here the rest of the week and will be back in touch next week sometime. May each of marriages stand for something special and I hope that it is filled with a magical sort of bliss! I love Alan Jackson's song Remember When, it explains it pretty well! ((Hugs)) Teresa






